I use "restrainer" in the sense that it restrains the chemical reaction that frees the palladium from the palladium salt. Because less palladium salt is converted into palladium, this increases the contrast of the sensitiser, which means you can match your print to a less dense negative.
It's a term I picked up from Dick Arentz, I think. It's conceptually similar to the restrainer in a silver gelatin emulsion (although chemically different).
NA2 gives lovely smooth highlights; potassium chlorate quickly ruins them if you use too much. Dichromates also give lovely smooth highlights, and they also work for platinum which is important if you want to work with platinum.