In addition to the various complications mentioned above, there is a fundamental reason that these calculators are unlikely to be reliable. In order for a solution to have a predictable and stable pH, that is for it to be an effective pH buffer, it must contain both a weak acid and its conjugate weak base, with no more than about a ten-fold excess of one or the other. An example of such a pair is acetic acid and acetate. If a weak acid or base alone is dissolved in water, only a tiny amount of it is converted to the other form, which means that it won't be an effective buffer.
There are recipes for preparing well-behaved buffer pairs, including ones designed specifically for calibrating pH meters. But making these solutions requires an accurate balance, high-quality reagents and purified water. As others have suggested, it is much easier to buy calibration buffers.
David