You definitely want the 75mm lens. It's small and light and cheap. I'd also recommend the 150mm, especially if you like portraits. The 35mm is really nice but it is pretty wide and a bit pricey. It's about like a 20mm on a 35mm camera. When I sold mine I got $500 for it and it was the manual focus non FA version. I don't know what they are going for now. If you do macro then get the macro lens. Macro people love this lens and you can do portraits with it too. I preferred the 150 strictly for portraits however. I tried the macro lens and liked it but besides the occasional flower, I'm just not much of a macro photographer.
I tried the 45-85 zoom for shooting people hand held. It's a very nice lens but I preferred using the small and light 75mm FA lens. I just zoomed with my feet. The extra coverage wasn't worth the extra size and weight to me but it may be to you.