Changing Grade
I see the whole process as fine tuning an engine until it runs optimally,or continuing to chisel at the sculpture until every aspect of it is exactly the way you want it. Thats part of the fun.
I subscribe the the line of thought that I cling onto a print like a Bulldog until I get everything right. I may burn through a box of paper (and an month in the darkroom) before I get the print to where I want it to be ~ the point at which you look at it,and look it at it, and look at it, and can't find anything you want to change. Then, you look at the print a few weeks or months later and decide you want to create a different rendition.
My advice is: don't try to automate the process Rather, enjoy the process itself. It s like riding a motorcycle
the destination is not important; it is all about the ride (the process).
When things are getting frustrating, walk away from the darkroom and re-tackle the project at a later date, with a fresh eye and renewed attitude.