My history is similar to yours... fifty years of making photograms, the last twenty or so digital and about twenty years of alt process experience.
Thus, although I am no expert as all of my alt process experience is with digital negatives but I'll attempt a response...
Alt process printing is certainly possible with analog negatives, as you point out. My understanding is that the fully analog process is actually, in its essence, the same as with digital negatives... one has to make negative that is tailored to fit the printing process.
In the analog realm, that means knowing from before you make the exposure that the negative you are about to make will be used from process X. You then make the exposure and develop film so that the contrast of the negative matches the requirements of process "X". This also means that a negative optimized for "X" will not work well with process "Y" or "Z".
The idea of curves in the making digital negatives is more-or-less the same... you are matching the properties of the negative to the characteristics of the printing process you wish to use.
Both methods of making negatives have learning curves associated with them I would hazard a guess that most folks (even seasoned darkroom denizens, would find the learning curve for analog negative much steeper than that for digital negatives.
My best advice for beginners with digital negatives (I teach occasional alt process workshops.) is "don't start from scratch". Rather "beg, borrow, or steal" a curve for the process you are interested in and use that as a starting point. You can find curves online (Bostick & Sullivan has a small library as doe alternativephotography.com), you can find them in alt process books (Chris Anderson's books often have curves in them) and you can ask folks directly (many folks will send you their curve if you ask). Often a generic curve is is "good enough". If it is not, you have data that can be tweaked rather than building from the "ground up". Have I used enough clichés in this paragraph!
The bottom line for me is that the advantages of digital negatives are well worth the effort to scale the learning curve. The two big advantages are 1) the ability to print the same image in different processes or at different sizes and 2) the ability to make local adjustments with alt processes (i.e. you dodge and burn before you print the negative). The latter is simply not possible when contact printing. The former opens up all sorts of creative possibilities, the most obvious is a tryptic or diptych of the same image in different processes.
Hope that this response is useful.