@cramej , I don't see this as a problem. I see it as a benefit! Photography is a view from the eyes of the person using the camera. And, for me, I like that fact. For others, you are absolutely correct. Thus remotes, timers, and other methods of framing a tripod shot and running to join the posed crowd.
Selfies... ugh. I hate the view, I hate the look, I hate the pose. It's a view through the eyes of someone, but that someone who is constantly staring at themselves in a mirror. It sets off something visceral in me that makes me see the poser/photographer with distaste.
One of the most ingenious inventions that I absolutely hate is the selfie stick. Solves myriad problems a lot of people were having in a simple way. Absolutely the best sort of invention. God I despise them. But they handle the selfie problem way better than timers and tripods in the pre-phone days.
Years ago I saw a comedian talking about people's social media compared to the days of film cameras. He remembered growing up and meeting friends after they'd taken a trip. You'd look at someone's vacation album and there'd be a picture of the view, a picture of the car, a picture of some people you met, pictures of the family in front of tourist spots, etc. If someone did social media by printing it and putting it in an album, what impression would that photo album give you? You'd think they were a psychopath. Flipping page after page "This is my face, this is my face, this is my face, this is my face, this is my face..."