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The manufacturer's data sheets have all sorts of valuable information in them. Most can be found on their websites.
Ilford's website is here:
https://www.ilfordphoto.com/
Kodak Alaris' website is here:
https://imaging.kodakalaris.com/photographers-photo-printing/resources/techenvironment
There are also links to data sheets in many product listings in retailer websites.
If you have a room or a closet that you can make
fully dark - even if only at night - you can use it instead of changing bag. In fact, it is better than a changing bag.
In some cases, the best answer to your questions may be that you should do some things now, but can consider doing other things later once you gain experience. Your question about one shot developer is one example (with a bit more experience you may wish to try replenishment). Your question about colour is another example (don't start with it, but don't exclude the possibility for the future).
Adorama and Photo Warehouse and Freestyle are a few more competitors worth looking at for paper prices. Start with RC paper and, if possible, buy a 100 sheet box of variable contrast 8"x10" paper. You can always cut it into smaller sheets as you learn.
Print developer needs to be stronger than film developer (normally). If you adjust film developer to work with prints, it tends to end up being expensive. DF96 is a monobath I believe - you don't want to start with it for prints!
Your wetting agent will last for a really large number of films. Don't use fingers or sponges or squeegees unless the squeegee is both high grade and scrupulously maintained and used with a fair bit of technique - in other words, don't.
Good bottles with very low oxygen permeability are important. Club soda bottles actually work well after they have been emptied and cleaned - as long as the caps remain good.
Some chemicals - primarily developers - need to be shielded from light during storage. A cupboard door or a plastic storage tub to hold the bottles can do that for you.
As far as storage life is concerned, those data sheets have answers. Developers are probably the most likely to be short-lived, but this varies greatly.
Don't get too focused on storage life. As an example, people get really concerned about not being able to use a mixed up 5 litres of X-Tol developer within the Kodak.recommended six month time frame. But those people should consider that that package of developer costs them ~$12 USD - or $2 per month. If after 6 months they still have $4 worth of developer left, it isn't a disaster if they decide, out of an excess of caution, to discard it and make a new batch.
Both Ilford and Kodak Alaris have publications aimed at the beginning darkroom user.
Here is the Kodak one:
https://imaging.kodakalaris.com/sites/prod/files/files/products/AJ-3.pdf
Here is a good section of the Ilford website:
https://www.ilfordphoto.com/category/learning-zone/beginner-series/