I continue to use Nikonscan still.
So with only auto focus and exposure enabled - all other settings off or neutral, you are blowing out highlights? In that case, adjust Analog Gain Master slider towards the minus side till you minimize the blownout highlights. If these settings will apply to the rest of the roll, you can save that setting for convenient recall to apply to other strips/frames of film that may need it.
If you need more help, maybe seeing your results can lead to more appropriate recommendations.