Roughly speaking this is how it's supposed to work, for the FTn finder (the last of the F finders, which has the large release lever on one side):
- at rest, with no lens attached, the coupling pin is in the center.
- if you push up on the coupling pin with your finger, you hear a spring-firing noise inside and the indicator in the maximum-aperture window on the front of the prism moves to f/5.6. This is what they intend you to do for lenses with no aperture prong, as (I think) in this position the prism will meter in stop-down mode (you use the DOF preview to stop down the lens and take a reading).
- when you mount a lens, twist the aperture ring toward larger f-numbers and the pin will ride over the prong, then engage the center notch and follow the prong. Then twist the aperture ring to the maximum aperture (smallest number) and the indicator in the window on front will follow, showing f/2.8 if you have an f/2.8 lens mounted, etc. This sets the meter up for open-aperture reading, and is slightly simpler than the twists required by earlier versions of the prism.
If the pin is not engaged by the prong as you twist the aperture, then it sounds like the spring that pushes the pin down and into the notch is not functioning. It is possible that the mechanism has been damaged by someone wrenching on the pin while dismounting a lens in an uncouth manner. It could be as simple as an unhooked spring or a bent piece of metal.