I've always used a MD-11 or MD-12 on one of my FM/FE series bodies, but usually would leave it turned off while loading, since it wasn't really needed. Like what Russ (KK) said, I usually have a drive attached, but don't usually have it on.
One thing I always do, no matter what MF Nikon I'm shooting, is to rotate the takeup spool by hand until the leader has wrapped around the spool once. Then, I close the back and fire my two shots, leaving the camera uncocked when I'm done. That is, unless I'm loading in the field and will be shooting immediately after I load the camera up.
-J