The new TMY, while measurably better than the older version, behaves similarly. I've tried the old TMY with Diafine a couple of times and wasn't terribly impressed. It just doesn't work as well as Tri-X when pushed that hard. The film is beautiful at box speed in nothing more fancy than D-76 or XTOL. At EI 800 in plain old D-76 1+1 or XTOL 1+1, results are better than I'd expected. Given a choice, I'd go with XTOL 1+1 for that. A two stop push to 1600 with reasonably good results is do-able in dilute XTOL.
For a 1 1/2 to 2 stop push, Tri-X is the best match up for Diafine, though I've had some pretty good success with the developer and other films. Foma 100 works nicely at box speed without any fuss and retains good highlight detail. Same goes for Foma 200, which is notorious for not reaching box speed in anything else I've tried.