I grew up in Lovington, NM, so I can relate to your current place of residence. It isn't a place I'd wish to live again, although some do seem to like the place. I'd suggest taking up golf at the local country club, follow the football teams (football is king in these places), and perhaps trying out some quail hunting in the Fall.
Finally, perhaps you'd find some interest in exploring an area that I, unfortunately, never even knew about when I was living in Lovington. That's the Caprock Canyonlands, described as a land of inverted mountains. One of the primary locations is Palo Duro Canyon State Park in Texas. This was an area sufficiently beautiful to inspire Georgia O'Keefe in some of her paintings.
Here's a source book: "Caprock Canyonlands: Journeys into the Heart of the Southern Plains", Dan Flores, University of Texas Press, copyright 1990, ISBN # 0-292-72501-1.
Good luck!
Jim