You all out of line- and most likely so am I. In the first case, if somebody has a problem with a post, it needs to be reported, instead of addressing comments on the thread, as some sort of quasi APUG police officer, so in that sense I agree with Ian. A moderator has the best chance of converting a driveby, such as occured, into a sponsor.
In the second case, the complaint about the moderator and the first poster should be adressed in a similar fashion, rather than this playground stuff.