Regarding ventilation - I only added it when I started doing lith prints with heated developer (which has formaldehyde in it, nasty stuff we're finding out). If you want to add a vent to a basement darkroom, it's not really rocket science, esp. if the ceiling is unfinished. You'll see joists that run across the ceiling every 16" or so apart, like 2" x 10" boards laid on edge. Those terminate at the exterior wall. Sometimes there's framing they butt up against, sometimes you'll see the exterior sheathing or brick. Basically, you have to cut a 3" hole in that space, to the outdoors. Even if it's brick, it's not that hard if you have an impact drill - you just make a dotted-line of holes and bust out the middle with a large hammer. Then you get a dryer vent kit (includes the hood that goes outdoors and a length of flexible tube). Buy a bathroom exhaust fan ("fart fan" in builder terms) and hook it all up; the fan itself needs to be wired safely to a switch. Any handyman should be able to tell you their cost to install a dryer vent. DON'T tie into the existing dryer vent - they're full of dust and lint, and you don't want your clothes smelling like fix.
If the ceiling is unfinished, it may cause a hell of dust issues. I'd get some 1/8 plywood, paint one side, and screw it to the joists over your work area. Cheap and non-permanent.
For darkening fabric, check eBay for "blackout curtains", often used ones show up. They have a layer of light-proof material in them; you can buy blackout fabric at the fabric store as well.
For a paper safe - if you have or install a cupboard with a kitchen drawer, you can pull the drawer, paint it black inside, and install a hinged lid at the top - a paper drawer is way more convenient than a paper safe, doesn't take up counter space, cheap and versatile. Think the mechanics of it through, not very difficult.