It is possible that there is threadlocker on the retaining ring - you could try applying a little alcohol, or acetone if there is no plastic anywhere near it (acetone attacks many plastics) - and try again. With something this large you may need to fixture either the lens or the spanner - for ex, make the spanner out of a 2x4, clamp spanner to workbench, use both hands on the lens.
If you do get it apart, mirror lenses are basically the same thing as a Schmidt-Cassegrain or Maksutov-Cassegrain telescope used by many amateur astronomers, and there are resources in the amateur astronomy world for checking the collimation of such telescopes. The front glass is an aspherical corrector plate, and it has a secondary mirror on the back of it, in the center. I think that the centering of the secondary is pretty important, but the alignment of the corrector plate is less so.