You will get many replies regarding which is the best filter for B&W.
As for metering TTL, you can safely meter with virtually all B&W filters, except red.
With red I use the manufacturers specification, which in my case is three stops for most situations. My TTL meter only allows about 2 and a bit extra with the red filter on and will underexpose the film if I use TTL.
Basically with red which can be called R8 or R60 or 25A depending on the manufacturer, you should figure out what works best with your particular film, as you should for all other filters. Each film will act slightly differently.
I myself use a deep orange for around 90% of all my normal B&W work and TTL when using a 35mm camera. I use the filter factor when using cameras without TTL.
Mick.