thanks a lot richard and john. I got it out, but it was more than a little bit of pressure. the lever was slightly bent then. I took the lever off and set the synchro to X before putting the assembly back. that was a lot easier. I can still attach the lever later if ever I wanted, but I just don't need M synchro.
in the end it wouldn't have been necessary to take the assembly out at all. as john said, you can easily unscrew the front and the back element. if you just remove the retaining ring, the back element can be unscrewed without taking the assembly out of the barrel.
I could remove the fungus from the back lens element. the glass surface has been attacked slightly, it'a a little bit dull, but as far as I can see (on a polaroid with a magnifying glass) there are no big effects to image quality. if ever I find a spare back element, I'll replace it, but it seems to be a usable lens again.
in any case: thanks a lot for your help.