Hi Carmenloofah,
the foma paper is an excellent choice for lith-printing!
For coarse grain, try to overexpose and slightly underdevelop the prints.
The developers Mr. Wolfang Moersch sells are well suited, they might be
available in the UK. He offers a simple lith developer ("Easylith"), and
a more sophisticate developer kit that allows you to set all parameters
by the included chemicals. He also has some usefull information about
lith printing at all on his webiste, just scroll to the bottom of the page:
http://www.moersch-photochemie.com/daten/knowhow.htm
btw: I personally never read it, but "The Master Photographers Lith Printing Book" by Tim Rudman
is often recommended for people who are seriously interested in lith-printing.
cheers