Lith takes toner quickly and strong. If it tones blue, it tones very blue. What you might do is try toning for a few seconds (say 10) then in to a bath and let it sit for a few moments. You may want to use weaker toner as well.
I don't think re-toning at this point will do you much good as it sounds like you may have gone too far in toning, but you can give it a try.
Selenium is one of those toners perhaps done best at the end of other toner baths, and gold will most certainly bring your abilities to tone any further to an end.
You might try a short weak bleach, then a quick tone in brown toner or sulphide, then into selenium if you need a split tone.
Seeing both prints would be quite helpful here.
Best of luck.