I don't know if the Pentax 645 qualifies as "light" but it isn't any heavier than the Mamiya. With the Pentax system the 45mm, 55mm and 75mm lenses are all f/2.8
If looking at the Pentax I would strongly recommend the 645N or 645Nii over the original. Personally my 645N is my favorite medium format SLR. It may not be as modular as the Mamiya but I have both and I tend to reach for the Pentax more often than the Mamiya Pro TL. I'm not exactly sure why but my emotional connection with the Pentax is definitely stronger. But I don't mean to play down the Mamiya system either. It's a very fine system and I particularly enjoy the 35mm and the 80/1.9, along with the macro lens and macro attachment for 1:1 magnification.
Bronica systems are very nice as well, but the lenses, while stellar in many ways, are not particularly fast. But if you go all the way back to the older focal plain shutter models you will find that at least the standard lens is f/2.8 (such as the S, S2 and C models)
Finally, if light weight is your primary goal I would suggest a rangefinder. F/2.8 will elude you but the portability and ease of use of a rangefinder is hard to beat. I am thoroughly enjoying my recently acquired three medium format rangefinders: Fuji GS645, Fuji GF670 and Mamiya 6. Remember, fast glass is almost always BIG. Lightweight and f/2.8 is a pretty tough combination to find in medium format.