I lost the small eyecup for my 645n and replaced it with the large one. I have difficulty in screwing it on and I worry about stripping or crossthreading the eyepiece and then being unable to mount the ref converter.
I see you've posted it to the Pentax US forum, perhaps we'll both find a good solution. It seems that the DK-2 eyepiece is not available from B & H, I think I'll take my 645 to a big camera shop and see if there're any third-party eyecups that would fit.