I think you're missing the point. We're not talking "used to" because it wasn't as bad then.
The point is we're talking now. When everyone has a camera.
Multiply what you ran into by, a factor of 20.
And with the mentality of every one taking pictures today, I don't think many people would be buying your prints.
I had many experiences with "nice people" who would come up during the reception and ask questions about their cameras and how to work them, and they were often the ones who kept stepping in front of me when I was working.
I can't imagine it now.
Go to a concert and half the people are watching through their cellphone while recording it. And blocking the people behind them.
Not really missing the point. Just commenting on how I handled a somewhat
similar problem.
All of my wedding work happened long after Instamatics took the world by storm - in fact after SLRs became really common. So there were lots of cameras at just about every wedding I shot. And even then, wedding photographers were complaining about guests with cameras.
I'm just saying that if you have to herd cats, cooperation is one of the techniques that frequently works. And it is far easier to control disruptions if people know that they will have lots of opportunities to take photographs.
I agree though - I probably wouldn't sell many prints today. Because relatively few people value prints today.
The last time I documented a wedding (I wasn't the "official" photographer) it was the wedding of my wife's second cousin. The couple had hired a wedding photography team who shot voluminously on digital. I shot a moderate amount of medium format, and worked very carefully to avoid interfering with them in any way. Although they were happy to hitch-hike on the single shot I set up:confused:.
The family had a get together a couple of weeks later and people brought their photos to look at along with the proof prints (IIRC) from the "official" photographers. I brought the pro lab proofs that I had.
The couple looked at my proofs and exclaimed: "They are so Clear!".
I was reasonably happy with what I shot (composition, expression, timing, exposure, focus, etc.), but the one of the big differences between what I presented and what others had was due to the fact that I had edited more carefully (both before exposure and after development) and that the quality of presentation of my lab machine proofs generally exceeded the quality of presentation of the other prints and screen images available.
It is the acceptance of mediocre that brings rise to much of this problem. I don't know why blurred concert shots are given more value than clear memories, but I expect it has some connection with the desire to preserve.