There's a big difference between judging and critique. I think contest judging as promoted by so many clubs is a destructive process in photography. All contests, like car races, or bike races, create a set of understood winning methods that are soon copied by every competitor in the quest for the win. It doesn't take long before all the pictures begin to have the same characteristics. In the PSA and clubs that follow those ideas, the word of choice for all photographs is "IMPACT!" This is their holy grail of photography. It's the prized quality above all else. In their theory the value of photography is limited to shock and awe and surprise. The photographic equivalent of a hammer blow to the head. Anything that might require reflection, or contemplation, is not worthy of top consideration. I think they are reflecting perfectly the Madison Avenue goals of advertising - - where they call them "images that stop you in your tracks." That's a sadly limiting view of photography.
Critique begins by using your own standards to judge your own work. This makes the commentary fit your own goals. The critique is a way to measure your progress using your standards, not an artificial one created by others for other work.
I hope you have a better experience in the future.