None of the meters we use reliably meter IR light.
However, the level of IR light tends to correlate with the amount of visible light, as long as we take into account a number of other factors, such as season, status of foliage, temperature, cloud cover and others.
Our experience with photographing with IR materials leads to knowledge about how much and under what circumstances those IR light levels correlate with the visible light levels we can measure with our meters.
So we measure the visible light, and from that make educated guesses about how much IR light is around as well.
Then we use a filter that blocks out all or most of the visible light, while letting the IR light through.