Being an engineer is no hindrance at all. Henri Matisse was a court administrator and studying to be a lawyer before he decided to pursue a life of art. It doesn't seem to have held him back very much :} And we all know the wonderful story of the great painter Grandma Moses, who began painting at the age of 78. There are many, many stories like this. When I worked as a mechanic, I was a mechanic. When I was the marketing director of the oldest professional ballet company in America, I was a marketing director. And when I picked tomatoes (for $1 an hour), I was a tomato picker. So much for titles.
In the final analysis, if you're happy w/ your work (and even better, if you're UNHAPPY w/ it), then you have what it takes. Don't ever let anyone else tell you have to be a certain way, think a certain way, or study a certain way to be an artist. Anyone that produces art is an "artist". Best not to get hung up on titles, as they mean nothing in this field. Or, if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and looks like a duck, by gum, it's a duck!
You have several pics on your site that I like quite a bit, especially the blurry portrait and the feather. The only advice I would give (nothing like unsolicited advice, right?) is to try and avoid too much sentimentality w/ family stuff. To you, those people are the greatest people on earth, and that's how it should be. But for your art purposes, reserve those shots for the family, unless we're talking about the blurry portrait shot, the shot w/ the fallen scooter or bike (lots and lots of associations there for everyone), and the B&W shot of the girl at the miniature light house. Those are good. But, that's just my opinion, and you know what they say about opinions. Many years ago, when I had my own separate art studio, a fellow painter and I stumbled onto an old art book that had some questionable advice, but one thing we really liked was this: "A mistake in art is simply success on a level that we don't yet fully understand". I still like that. Artists, writers, and photographers are usually the last people who should be judging their own work. If you like it, that's it, and on to the next story/drawing/painting/photo, etc. The main thing is to stay focused, keep working, keep moving.