I am using Jobo reels.
Check your reel. Damaged, contaminated (wetting agent, silver) or wet plastic reels are causing problems soon or later.
Do not use mechanical stuff for cleaning your plastic reels.
Dental cleaning tabs or blix (RA-4) are working the best.
Clean your reel extensively with water if contaminated with wetting agent.
Do not use overheated water, it will damage your reel.
Easy loading can depend on the actual weather circumstances. Loading a polyester based film under high himidity circumstances can be tricky.
I can load a 35mm film within 10s in a plastic Jobo reel. With a bit luck when a 120 rollfilm is not curling to much 2X 120 rollfilm on one 1501 Jobo reel, using the red clip. But this will not help you when suffering with a certain film and reel.
Some films are loading easier depending on their base, thickness, curling a.s.o. but never force a film on a reel. It won't help and always damage the film more or less.
and yes, sometimes you need a new reel, not on e-bay but a brand new one or a developer tank which is not leaking due to all misuse in the past years.
For the rest: Read my signature
Best regards,
Robert