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I use a final rinse in water with a few drops of Kodak PhotoFlow. I use about half the recommended quantity of PhotoFlo - too much, and the PhotoFlo itself can leave a residue on the film.
For years, in our former home, I used water that I took from a dehumidifier in the basement. I passed the water through a coffee filter to remove any dust particles that might have gotten into it. Since water captured by a dehumidifier is essentially distilled water, it had very low mineral content.
In our new home we don't need a dehumidifier. But we do have an ion exhange water softener and a reverse osmosis drinking water filtration system that produces water that is free of minerals and dust. I find this works just as well as the distilled water in the old place.
Years ago I also wiped my film (35mm) between a couple of fingers that I had soaked in water treated with PhotoFlo, but I found that I got lots of scratches. (Rough fingers?). So now I just hang them up in a drying cabinet and let them dry.
My drying cabinet is a DIY wooden cabinet with a fan that pulls air in through a filter, and then flows it past a 200w light bulb and into the chamber with the film. It dries film in half an hour with no dust at all.