Hello Heespharm,
I usually mix sodium metaborate as following: for 10 grams of metaborete I take 7,5 grams of borax and 1,5 grams of sodium hydroxide and put it in a glass beaker (or a clasic coffee - cup), mix it together and add about 2-4 drops of water (yes, really only so little) . Then I stir it with a stainless steel spoon, until it becomes an ugly sticky material, but I keep on stirring and the hydroxide starts to react with the water and borax (and heats up), until the water is evaporated and that sticky paste becomes crystallic again. Finally I have to crush it to a finer powder to ensure good and fast dissolving in water (or the TF-2 fixer, where I use the sodium metaborate).
Sorry for my english