Hold the reels without too much tension.
With one hand, rotate the reel to pull the film into the reel.
With the other hand gently cup and guide the film.
Load the film a short segment at a time - half a reel rotation each segment works okay.
After each segment, gently push/pull the film in and out a tiny amount - if it moves freely you can load the next segment. If it binds, pull the film out and retry the last one or two segments.
As the film loads correctly, the edges of the film make a subtle, very regular and very quiet scraping sound. Learn to recognize that sound, because that little bit of sound is the single most reliable clue that you are loading correctly.
From time to time, rub a finger over each side of the reel. If the film isn't loaded correctly, it may stick out a bit.
Matt, total agreement here. However, I stumbled upon a Hewes loader. Totally unnecessary as Hewes 35mm reels are so easy to use.
You retrieve the film end with a doo hickey, trim off the tab, place the cassette into the holder on the winder, engage the sprocket holes onto th teeth of the reel. Then turn off the lights with a handy foot switch, turn the little crank for about 7 seconds, film loads, trim off the end attached to the spool, another half turn. It's a blast.
I rarely use it but I keep a dummy roll handy just to impress my friends
I have some of the Jobo/Paterson Hewes reels, they will fit both columns. I see no advantage. They are much heavier than Jobo, not great with the smaller processor.
OP I have found Paterson reels easier than the AP. I've only have tried USED AP reels, NEW Paterson reels, in a dry, cool, darkroom are the easiest reel I've ever used.
I would be shocked to find any difference between any reels in stand development, but to be honest I'm not a stand development guy, so what do I know.
Fascinating discussion.
Best Regards, Mike