Generally speaking, negs destined for a condenser enlarger should be developed to a slightly lower contrast index (CI) than those destined for a diffusion enlarger due to the difference in contrast afforded by the two enlarger types. That, however, assumes that one is using a densitometer to check the negs. Using the contrast grade of the paper to test the CI sort of side-steps and equalizes that consideration. A given neg might need a grade 2 paper in a condenser enlarger, but grade 3 paper on a diffusion enlarger.
You might be better off by deciding which enlarger gives you the look you want, and then standardizing processing for that printing environment.