Just try using the enlarger without the heat absorbing glass. You may find you don't need it. It is unlikely that it would be easy to search out some other enlarger that did have it. Many enlargers never had it and people survived; and the average person selling off an enlarger doesn't know if they have it.
The point of the heat absorbing glass is to block IR radiation that would be absorbed by a B&W negative and cause it to bulge ("pop"), losing focus. This is more likely to be a problem with long exposures, dense negatives, and larger formats. In a modern age with pretty fast paper and most people using 35mm, you probably will find that you don't need it.
I don't think you will have an easy time explaining it to a glass shop. Maybe there's something similar sold for windows.
I have had a heat absorbing glass (I think for a Beseler 23C), and about all I can remember of it was that I think it looked a little greenish? There's no markings that would tell you a glass type. To the human eye, it's just a clear piece of glass.