It is a battle with getting people to understand that HDR stands for the contrast range not tonemapping.
The other battle is the one exposure HDR, it doesn't exist. You can get the "look" and it doesn't always have to be nuclar, but even with grunge, it is still just tonemapping.
The number of exposures are based on the contrast range .
IMHO, the more the better, but that decision is determined by the total contrast range.
As you can see what the image posted, the monitor is still blown out with a small amount of verbage seen but with the correct exposure scale one could read the monitor without the blown out highlights.
There is also a lot of halos in that image, what software did you use?