For my own personal use and in my own darkroom, the largest I can do and have done a 35mm neg to, is about 1.4 metres wide on the projected image, then a section of that is usually printed on 12x16" paper (Ilford RC).
Once I used some 24x30" paper (Kodak RC), but that was for a near life sized bust shot, of mother and child. The subsequent prints were mounted onto foam core, to this day they are still hanging in the family home.
I have to use a glass carrier for anything like that, otherwise there is not edge to edge grain sharpness. With the glass carrier I have good sharp grain right across the print.
In another life, the largest I have enlarged a 35mm colour slide was to a colour billboard size, using Kodak 6' wide by 100' EP2 colour paper. The prints were mounted to a sail cloth like fabric by using an upholsterers sewing machine.
These cloth was then plastic welded at the back and the cloth was also sewn over with another piece of cloth over the seams for strength.
To get this kind of enlargement we made an 8x10" internegative (Kodak), whacked that in a 10x10" horizontal enlarger, then enlarged away to our hearts content all night.
It was for an end of year do of a very large international business, the photographer shot their new CEO about ½ an hour after the AGM, motorcycle couriered the film to us, which was about lunch time.
We finished the job around 0700hrs the following morning and the billboard portrait of the new CEO beamed out in our largest (at the time) exhibition hall for a huge press conference.
I think about 20 people in total were involved, big job, big satisfaction, big pay cheque the following week.
Generally I find that I print 35mm to a maximum enlargement where the negative is spread to about 20x24" and I use a portion on 12x16" paper. Not that often, but sometimes.
Mick.