Let me refer you to my friend
Jason Keefer, who does a lot of work in DC. He doesn't post here on APUG. Excellent wedding/engagement photographer. His company is a husband wife team, actually, and they complement each other very well. They do film and digital and offer many interesting output options. I and another friend have been working with Jason to offer traditional b&w and lith prints to their repertoire.
If Jason's work doesn't do it for you or isn't at the right price point, I can name others.
And no, there isn't really a formal directory here, you just post and people reply