I don't think there are any standard filters that could separate fixer, or the silver it contains from the wash water.
In another thread, someone, Ian I think, mentioned running wash water through a silver recovery cartridge in commercial labs. You could do that, or rig up you're own set up with steel wool perhaps. That only gets the silver out of the liquid though, it wouldn't remove the fixer. And I doubt that it would save money.
For washing film there is the Ilford method that a lot of people use to minimize water use. For roll film, I use a variation which is dump and fill every 5 minutes for 20 or 30 minutes. Using that method I go through about 4 liters of water.
Prints would be somewhat more difficult, but fiber washes almost as well just sitting in a static large volume of water as they do in running water.