Pan F, T-Max 100, Acros, and Delta 100 are the films I would suggest. X-Tol would be a good all-around developer that gives fine grain. However, HC-110 would also work fine IMO, as long as you use a strong dilution of it to keep the sodium sulfite level high. (Use dil. B or stronger.) you could also try a pyro developer, such as PMK.
If you really want to take it to the extreme, try Rollei ATP1.1 in POTA. The film has extraordinary resolution and no grain to speak of, in pretty much any developer. But you need to tame the contrast very heavily (hence the POTA developer), and this makes it a very slow in practice, when used for continuous tone. But IMO you really don't need to go that far, especially with medium format. T-Max 100 will be just fine, and more easy to use.