A lot of it will depend on the brightness range of your scenes. In the video example, it looks like the scene was in overcast outdoor light. There are no sharp shadows, so the brightness range of the scene is relatively low. In cases like that, a 3 stop overexposure still renders the scene on the straight line portion of the film, so it will still look perfectly fine (but with a slightly longer exposure time for the print). The video should provide some comfort that you don't need to worry too much.
If you shorten the development time, you might actually be making things worse. Shortened development will mean lower contrast, and you'll need to use higher contrast in the final print (via printing filter change or different paper contrast grade).
If your subject matter has a wide brightness range, and you have important detail to be retained in the bright highlights, then a shorter development time may be warranted. Otherwise, I'd stick to your normal development, that you're already comfortable with. Switching to an unfamiliar developer or developing time, doesn't warrant the risk.