I use EPSON V500 with EPSON's scanner software.
What I usually do is to do a pre-scan first, then set the white point and black point away from the active portion of the histogram. That sometimes mean WP and BP are all the way to left and right respectively. I usually don't play with the curves at the time of scan. What I observed is that auto-exposure clips on both sides, as you have also seen. So I manually change that to scan the full range of tones. If the image is "clipped" already at the time of scan, it's lost forever. That's not good....
I am not sure if there is such thing as "accurate scan" when it comes to scanning films. In my darkroom processes, I "interpret" the negative by using all sorts of techniques. My goal isn't to produce a print that is "accurate." My goal is to produce a print that is pleasing and convey my intent and emotions. As such, when I scan, my goal is to get the maximum range of tones. Then when I print (ie. in post), I interpret the scanned images. It will have to be this way because the range of tones available on film is far wider than what can possibly be printed on paper. So some compression, omission, manipulation, etc, etc, etc, would be necessary.
Anyway, right or wrong, that's how I do mine.