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I can't believe that 4x5 enlargers are that uncommon, after all up until the 50's it was the goto size for press photographers everywhere. And 2x3 enlargers are the same size as 6x9 enlargers and not one of them will have a carrier with an opening much more than 56x80-ish I say 80 something since a lot of 6x9 cameras shoot something slightly shorter for whatever reason. If you want to print a full 6x9 image you'll need a carrier with glass inserts, which you mask to the exact format of your negatives with black paper, once you've done that you'll then be making "format" prints which won't fit any standard paper size. You'll not get the same results modifying a 6x7 enlarger, you will get illumination fall off at the corners.
I think by this point it sounds like you are just trying to justify a decision you have already made, more power to you! Depending on how modular your enlarger of choice is, it may be very easy or incredibly frustrating to mod it for 6x9, you'll need a bigger light source and a longer focal length lens (100mm-105mm). Me I'd rather be printing that making stuff in the workshop.