I guess I'm going to have to be the odd man out in this: for 4x5 sheet film I process 8 sheets at a time, emulsion side down. When I first started using sheet film I processed the film emulsion side up and got many, many scratches in the emulsion. After I switched to emulsion side down, the scratches mostly went away. I still scratch a sheet from time to time but it's by my carelessness, letting a corner dig in when I'm putting the sheet I've taken off the bottom of the stack onto the top of the stack, but the scratch is on the back, not in the emulsion, and I can often deal with that easily.
One caveat: I simply can't feel the edges of sheet film when wearing gloves, so I don't wear them for 4x5 processing (TMX in D-76, mostly.) For 8x10 film, which I like to see in a pyro developer, I wear gloves so that stuff I do one sheet at a time.
Mike