Hi there. I'm pretty sure I had the same issue with my Reflex "Standard". If memory serves, the curtain tension is set via the two screws circled in the attached image, although I'm not sure anymore which one is the 2nd curtain. To increase tension, I think you have to carefully hold the screw with needle-nose pliers or similar, lift the spring and turn the screw with a screwdriver and reinsert the spring, obviously.
However, this might not be necessary, as the first thing to do is to carefully clean and lube the curtain rollers as described here:
and here (sorry, it's in German but I'm sure you get the idea):
Langsamer Verschluss, hängendes Langzeitenwerk, zerbröselter Spiegeldämpfer - einige kleinere Reparaturen an den Edixa-Kameras kann man selber machen.
You can carefully move the rollers up and down a little bit to give yourself enough room to get in there with a syringe or whatever you're using.
I'm actually not sure anymore wether I resorted to re-tensioning. It's not hard if you have a CRT monitor or TV to check the approximate speed and whether they run parallel.
http://rick_oleson.tripod.com/index-135.html
While you have the bottom plate removed, carefully clean the slow speed gears on the right with lighter fluid and re-lube. Then fire the shutter a couple dozen times at 1 second. This should sort out your slow speeds, although it probably doesn't hurt to put a little bit of gun oil down the speed selector shaft from above like you did.
Anyway, these are apparently somewhat crudely made cameras, at least if this
account is to be believed.