In my experience, you don't need the Autocalo normally, otherwise it would have been standard equipment. With the 150w bulb I haven't had heat problems eg negative popping, though you might with a 250w bulb, or a point source bulb.
The Focus Variator is the knob on top of the column; set the height of your easel on the scale at the top of the column, in cm on the right or inches on the left. The knobs to right and left of the head are to raise/lower the head on the right, and to lock it on the left.
The filters you show in the pictures are 8.9 cm square; you need 12 cm square, which I don't think were made, you need to cut down 15cm square filters, not difficult. You have a filter drawer; mine came without, but I easily made one out of 1mm card and a bit of glue. I expect you have worked out that Autofocus is set for the 50mm and 80mm lenses for 35mm negswith the 50mm Unicon and 6x6 with the 85 mm Unicon; with your 105 mm lens and Unicon 105 condenser you will need to focus by hand.
Richard