Have a few negs comercially processed to see if you are more happy with the contrast/color.
Be aware commercial people do not normally use Profesional Portrait Paper with is low in contrast.
If you are using commercial paper, not portrait, and are getting different results from the commercial lab, something is wrong with your process.
Old developer although it is freshly mixed
Fog inside enlarger lens
Contaminated developer
Safelight fog
Out of date paper or paper not kept cold even before you got it
my results always match my favorite Kodak Q lab which has exacting quality standards. I use 160VC and pro portrait paper the same as they do.
You might scan a neg and send it to a lab outside your area that is known for good work.
Elevator imaging
West Coast Image
A&I
If you get back equally bad results, the problem is in the negative development.
If all is well and you want more contrast/color saturation, then you need commercial paper and perhaps a film that gives more contrast/color. These are easy to find, but I am not recommending any as I never use them. Wait correction, I found some cheap FUJI for a dollar a roll in a five pack at Target. You will get all the color/contrast you want.