I agree with Bob-D659. Autofocus cameras have different focusing screens than manual focus cameras. Focusing screens of autofocus cameras are optimized for light transmission. They are bright. Focusing screens of manual focusing cameras are optimised for focusing: they allow better detection of what is in focus and what is not. Those two qualities are conflicting. Given a certain manufacturing cost, there is a trade-off between light transmission and ease of focusing.
With AF cameras the focusing screen is not a good aid in judging fine focus and as a consequence is also a bad aid when judging depth of field. If the AF camera is a "cropped" one this makes things worse as the entire image is smaller, as said by Newt_on_Swings.
Possible cures:
- If it is a digital, use live-view if you have it, especially if there is a magnifier (2x no good, 10x good).
- With any camera: a separate magnifying loupe applied to the viewfinder might help in judging focus;
- IIRC some cameras have a function, a "focus priority", whereby you focus the nearest point you want in focus, the farthest point you want in focus, and the camera will set the aperture for you. This presumes that the circle of confusion acceptable for the camera is acceptable also for you, otherwise you take note of what the camera suggests and close one stop more.
- DoF tables, calculators etc. might be of use in such situations.
- "proper" manual focus cameras allow a more thought about, albeit slower focusing. As ever, the price to pay for automatism is control.