I love hearing these stories.
Decide your own favorite contrast index,
@Vaughn has a very strong reason for demanding more contrast than me.
Instead of changing contrast per roll to meet original scene contrast, I usually aim for contrast to fit ASA parameters (0.62 CI). I find that I can usually print the results using a diffusion enlarger on Ilford Galerie between paper grade 2 and 3.
When developing film, create a test strip to include in the tank. Measure results with densitometer and write down the speed and contrast index results.
These results over time help you build a personal library of the time-contrast relationship for every film and developer combination you try.
Think of the contrast index you want for the run as you prepare to develop film. Sit down with your notes after you clean the sink and before you turn on the water.
Estimate the development time you need by referring to your own time-contrast chart and set it on the timer.