I think that with current papers, you need a negative with a bit more contrast to handle the longer paper scale. You can determine how close you are wrt. developing with a step wedge. I'm not sure if you're using sheet film, but what I've done in the past is make a Zone X in camera exposure with a 21-step wedge in contact with the negative. If you can print Zone II with a 'just-noticeable' difference from the Zone I exposure, *and* you have the proper tonality in the upper zones, then you've got the correct development. Adjust accordingly - if the highlights are too dark, increase development - too light, decrease development.
In short - let your prints tell you how to develop your negatives.