Take off the lens and look into the lens mount. Watch the aperture stop down lever at the left (subject's left, photographer's right) as you fire the shutter. This lever should move down and up quickly - when it moves down, it allows the the lens to stop down, and when it returns, it holds the lens aperture open. If it's not returning quickly that's a problem.
Also look at the lens to make sure that the lens aperture opens and closes freely when you push the linkage on the lens by hand. Sometimes if lenses get oil on the blades the aperture gets sluggish (IME this happens less often with Nikon brand manual focus lenses than some others, but it can happen).
My guess is that something was bent and the bent linkage is causing the hangup. It may be the combination of the parts and hard to see when you have them apart. There may already have been friction due to a bent linkage and that's why you pushed hard enough on the DOF preview lever to break it. It is possible to bend these linkages if one forgets that Nikon lenses are removed righty-loosey rather than lefty-loosey (I did this to my first Nikon SLR over 30 years ago and had it fixed by a shop).
Incidentally, this isn't totally specific to analog photography, as many Nikon DSLRs have the same mechanical linkage to stop down lenses that have a manual (non-G) aperture.