It sounds as though you are quite mechanically minded, and very intuitive. Moreover, you have made impressive progress. Nevertheless, the entire process of constructing film curves ( including determination of the "proper" exposure of the film using the Stouffer tablet ) is detailed by Phil Davis in Beyond The Zone Sytem. The purchase of the book- to have on hand -will supply you with a great reference that you will refer back to over and over again. Also know that there is an entire chapter in the book about matching your film curves to paper curves so that one can use one's data to help achieve that mythical "pefect print". I have no association at all with the BTZS products. However, it would be remiss of me not to tell you that you can have all of your curves plotted automatically by using their Plotter Program with an eye towards producing a negative to fit the paper that you plan to use, i.e., one can match the film curves with the paper curves and grade that you desire to use. The resulting curves will be plotted, and can be printed out, so that you can expose your negatives and develop them in order to achieve the "correct" exposure. Some information might be on BTZS.org, or contact me privately as you desire for further information.
I agree with the other comments concerning the amazing breadth of knowledge demonstrated on the current thread. The responses have been fabulous, interesting, and informative. Obviously there are those here who could teach a BTZS course!
Ed