I understand about the different backs you can use but what I don't understand why the focusing unit does not have the grooves to lock it in addition to the hooks. Is this true with all focusing units?
If the focusing panel was retained by the Graflok sliders, as some roll holders are, then sheet film holders, which are designed to go between the focusing panel and back, would not be usable.
There's a somewhat loose Graflok standard. Cameras that conform to it have removable spring-loaded focusing panels. The standard is somewhat loose, there's no guarantee that one maker's conforming focusing panel will attach to another maker's conforming back.
There is a version of the Graflok back called International back. Cambo made at least three flavors of these things for the 2x3 Cambo SC-1. I have a couple of SC-1s with two different International backs. They can't be used with sheet film holders or with insertion type roll holders like my Adapt-A-Roll 620s. To use them, I have a kind of spring back called a bail back.
Now stop whining and get on with your life.