Hey, nothing wrong with these prints!
Some random musings....
How about preflashing your paper. Expose it maybe 3 stops under the point when you would see tones begin to appear under normal development. Then expose normally (mind you, the paper will now be a bit faster than before). You will thus move the net exposure a bit up the tone curve and have a bit less overall contrast index. This trick also works for film, of course. Sometimes this can tame runaway highlights.
Another thing you can do, if you have undesired hotspots on your print: you can can insert your [warm] finger into the developer and rub that area and build up a bit more density there, locally, more quickly than it would appear under normal development.
Then there is warm water bath or two bath development, that might help. I am not a practitioner of that and generally my negs for which I think of such things are already too contrasty for it to make much difference, but I think the basic idea is have one dev bath at normal concentration and then next at much lower.
You might think about diffusing your highlights a tad, by doing part of your exposure though a diffusing medium (plastic? paper?)- this can make the black/white boundaries a bit smoother without sacrificing too much critical detail. N.b. I also tend to go to a more surface-textured, fiber matte paper in these situations because the texture contributes some natural diffusion, whereas rc glossy or smooth-textured paper can be too incisive in the tonal boundaries (just my opinion of course).
I think the bottom line is to realize that we notice contrast more than absolute tone, so in other words if you have deep blacks, then those may set off the highlights more than deep greys would.
I think Nicholas is right though, the best place to begin is with exposure/dev ratio. Use test strips!
P.S. In #1, let me suggest cropping to just below the bench surface, to include her hand, which is where the interest is IMHO. That is quite nice, the way her hand is resting, and more relative open space about her head may be helpful. The lights to the bottom left are distracting to my eye, you could try burning those in.